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Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents
Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents
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Author: Deborah D. Gray
Publisher: Perspectives Press (IN)
Category: Book

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Avg. Customer Rating: 4.5 out of 5 stars(49 reviews)
Sales Rank: 11597

Languages: English (Original Language), English (Unknown), English (Published)
Media: Hardcover
Number Of Items: 1
Pages: 391
Shipping Weight (lbs): 1.7
Dimensions (in): 9.1 x 6.4 x 1.4

ISBN: 0944934293
Dewey Decimal Number: 362.734
EAN: 9780944934296
ASIN: 0944934293

Publication Date: May 2002
Availability: Usually ships in 1-2 business days

Editorial Reviews:

Amazon.com Review
Proper attachment is the most fundamental issue in a successful adoption, but what exactly does the term mean? Attaching in Adoption answers that question thoroughly, and it provides solutions to a variety of specific attachment problems.

Along with technical explanations of challenges such as self-esteem, childhood grief, and limit-testing, the book includes a tremendous number of personal vignettes illustrating attachment-related situations. Parents who are convinced that only their child has ever behaved a certain way are sure to take comfort in these stories; not only do they include kids from all backgrounds and age groups, but each has an ultimately happy ending. The emotional health of the whole family is also paramount according to the book--with plenty of rest and "alone time," caregivers are more likely to be emotionally available when they are most needed.

Because Attaching in Adoption focuses on special needs, families who are coming together through foster programs, at later ages, or across cultural lines will find it especially helpful. Both psychologically detailed and straightforwardly helpful, it can be of equal benefit to counselors and parents alike. --Jill Lightner


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5 out of 5 stars Outstanding-- again and again and agian   October 21, 2008
As the mother of two children adopted from Eastern Europe, and having read stacks and stacks of books on adoption and parenting children with attachment disorder, I can honestly say this one was the most helpful. My children were both 2 at adoption and are now both 11. We have weathered suicide attempts and many other serious mental and emotional problems, including a long-term psychiatric hospitalization, and still, when I have a question about my children's attachment development and what I can do to help, this is the book to which I turn. I only wish every teacher and professional that works with my children could/would also read this book.


2 out of 5 stars Too Clinical   September 16, 2008
You can tell this book is written by a professional therapist. I was looking for some straight-forward, basic help. This book did not do the trick. By the time you filter through her theraputic "mumble-jumble", you are only left with s thimble full of helpful advise. It was not worth my time or money. Back to the drawing board!


5 out of 5 stars Attaching in Adoption: Practical Tools for Today's Parents   August 4, 2008
I just wish I had had this book 2 years ago when I started as a foster parent. Yes it is mostly for adoption but I think it would have helped me tremdously.


5 out of 5 stars Very Helpful and Educational   July 7, 2008
This book was a gift after we adopted two toddlers from Russia. It helped to understand how attachment happens and to understand the stages. This book helped our family attachment struggles take a turn for the better. 2 1/2 years later the boys are wonderfully attached. This book wasn't the only tool used but was critical to first understanding how attachment works.


4 out of 5 stars Good for Adoptive parents   June 28, 2008
This book will give you insights into the areas we do not normaly think about in adoption. A good hepling hand.


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